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Opinion – Forcing Your Children To Attend Mosque or Church Service, Is It A Bad Approach?

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Opinion – Forcing Your Children To Attend Mosque or Church Service, Is It A Bad Approach

Compelling Your Children To Attend Mosque or Church Against Their Will, A Negative Authoritarian Parental Approach. On The Long Term Runs, Serves As The Major Factor For The Drastic Fall In Worshipping And Religious Gathering Among The 21st century Youths.

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A critical and strong observation depicted that immediately some teenagers and youth attained a level of freedom, especially living alone or living with someone else totally apart from their parents and family they stop going to churches or mosques and their level of worshipping in either churches or mosques drastically reduce.

Ask many youths and teens that lived alone the last time they went to any religion gathering, activities, church services or Friday mosque prayers, or even when they prayed last, observed their compulsory religion rites.

Some will tell you they can’t remember, others will tell you it has been long.

Amazingly, these were the people that never missed church Services on Sundays, the one o clock Friday prayers at the mosque, the daily prayers and even the weekly programmes while with their parents.

They will always perform their religion obligations, attends gathering and dare not miss it while still under their parent’s roof.

Many were beaten if they go late, let alone missing the entire service.

The thing about life and training is that, if you force or manipulate someone to do something they never want to do when they are weak or helpless, they will surely rebel and stop doing that thing when they attain some level of strength and independency.

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The reason why many of them stopped going to religious gathering and drastic fall in worshipping is because they gained freedom, they was to do things at their own convenience, developing kids are explorative, they want to explore the world differently, sleep when they likes, wake up at their own time.

Sometimes, it was never their decision to attend church and mosque services at unpleased time.

‘They were either been forced, cajoled or coaxed.’

‘And their parents already failed to expose them to some realities about their existence outside religious in which at this level of independency they believed they’ve grown up so much to expose themselves to the reality of their existence.

Forcing your little kids to go to religious gathering is not as important as explaining the love of God to them through the love of humanity to every human beings and which is very essential in life than rebuking none existing family or ancestors curse on them which they never carry, but most parents often believe their little kids have a spiritual problem which they must be delivered through going to church or mosque.

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Beating your kids when they miss church is not as important as explaining why it’s good to fellowship with religious brethren.

Some parent will even beat their children in church because they don’t close their eyes for prayers!

Opinion – Forcing Your Children To Attend Mosque or Church Service, Is It A Bad Approach

What a pity.

Getting angry when your kids says they don’t want to go to religious gathering is not as important as knowing why they don’t want to and truthfully explain the rightfully things to them.

Forcing your kids to church every Sunday is not as important as teaching them core values and morals of life.

If you force them when they are kids without explaining these things to them, they will only attend because of your beating, it will just be an activity to them and it will stop immediately they attain freedom from you.

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Opinion – Forcing Your Children To Attend Mosque or Church Service, Is It A Bad Approach



The world is changing, beyond telling kids to do or not do things, explain to them why they should do it and the important of it.

This is not what pastor’s preaching could do alone, it’s a parental role towards the wonderfully life their children will made out of in life.

Do what it’s the best and if they decide to take another path play along with them with appropriate guideline, so when they grow up they’ll never go astray finally away from what you want.

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Beating and forcing kids to church or mosque isn’t the best approach to train a child to be great in life but it instigates them become more evil and hearted stone.

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